Key points

• Waiting until children are ready to meet a new partner improves the chances that the new relationship will succeed.
• When introducing their children to a new partner, parents should typically wait until the relationship is strong and has lasted 9-12 months.
• The integration should be gradual. Start with a brief meeting in a neutral place. Let your ex-spouse know ahead of time.

Nine-year-old Tina (not her real name) confides that her dad has a new girlfriend, Lucy, and that she came over for dinner last night. Read More >